This may have been a flawed test but what do u think?
I have had this off and on fwb for the last 3 years
We usually hook up when ever we have free time, like absolutely free, so every 1-2 weeks. We are both busy and dont live close so it isn't so often
Well I always wondered if he was having sex with anyone else, as of late, I knwo he has but I made it clear to him that if we started hooking up again I didn't want to be knowing he's banging around like I knew before because I was only sleeping with him
Well this time around it seems to be opposite :/
I am the one who slept with a couple other people, a slutty moment I am not proud of, and maybe 2 isn't awful but they are people we mutually know, but they don't go around bragging so he'd never found out unless he outright asked, in that case idk itd be weird
but anywho, so he thinks Ive only been sleeping with him all these last few months and I havent, and I don't think just sleeping with him is going to work because I don't like waiting so long in between, I prfer 2 consistent fwb in different locations. maybe that was tmi
to get to the point
I left a condom there, and I will bring condoms, I don't like that BS where they are fogotten, so I brought some and left one and left it hella incognito so he wouldn't know it was on purpose to see if it'd be there the next time
So a week later I came and he still had that same one. We were going to use it but I wanted to try these new ones I saw in the store so I left that one there not used. Then I came back 2 weeks later and the condom was still there, so maybe he hasn't had sex?
Anyway I also just straight up asked him and he said no, he wouldn't lie to me i don't think, there is nothing he tries to hide from me.
This guy is also was to damn comfortable around me, will tell me the deepest thoughts about himself and we sit in bed for hours just talking, he is super excited to see me like WAY more excited then he was in the past
Way more jealous that he was before, not jealous in a weird way, but jealous in a way where he is trying to figure out what I am up to with the dating scene and if I tell him about anyone he starts pointing out flaws, I don't think he even realizes he's doing it but its very apparent that he doesn't like when I show interest in anyone else.
So I don't know, I get a read that maybe he is developing a certain feeling about me, and I'm so into myself that I don't want to even get started on a relationship. Yes the condom test is what brought me to these thoughts.
what do you think I should do about this man? Do you think the condom test is too flawed to make any conclusions from it?