found out yesterday that my SO(not legally married) of almost 7 yrs is cheating
on me. We both work at the same place just different shifts and different
departments. My mom told me another lady from work that works his shift caught
him and the fat bitch he works with making out in the break room. I already
suspected something was going on. I will link my previous story below. Anyways
I haven't confronted him yet and I don't know exactly what we are going to do.
Both of our cars are in his name. We have a joint bank account that we both put
all our money in, and the mobile home we own is under both of our names. I'm not
sure what to do. Last month we had this huge argument at work(link) and that
night I sent him a long email telling him I wanted to separate. Well that never
happened cuz the very next day we found out his cousin died in a car accident.
Although I was still mad at him I was there to support him and and his family.
He went thru a rough time because he was very close with his cousin. Anyways so
we worked things out but ever since then I have seen he has scratches on his
back , and I know they are not from me because I do NOT have long nails what so
ever. I have the habit of biting them. He always comes home late, his shift
ends at 11pm and he comes home almost everyday after 12-1 am. I always question
him and he always says he was at his brothers house which is only like 5 mins
away from ours. (because his truck is in the mechanic,so his brother or he
says.. picks him up after work) And there was also this one time that when he
got home he hurried up to take a shower didn't even bother to come in the
bedroom, he probably thought i was sleeping,but I wasn't. That day we had sex
and I just knew something was off I know his body very well and anything we have
sex more then once he will last forever and/or he can't get hard in the middle
of it and that's how it was that time. There are just too many things that are
adding up now and I've had it with him. We have 2 little boys and I'm not going
to take away their dad from them but I really don't want to be with him anymore.
I just need some ideas on how to confront him and the bitch at work. (and she
does know me,she was always all friendly to me). Please help me out if you have
been thru this before or what would you do if you where in my