Yep, you read that right. I hate my 10yo stepson. My SO has full custody of him and has since November 2011. The bio mom had kept him away for seven years so when SS came to live with us it had been a long time since father and son had seen each other. SS didn't even know that SO was his bio dad. The mom fucked this kid up for real. She did not teach him anything, at all. He didn't know how to tie his shoes, he didn't know he was supposed to wash his hair when he took a shower, he doesn't know how to clean his room or make a bed.He didn't know how to ride a bike and still doesn't know how to swim. He talks to himself ALL the time, and is just a really weird kid. He is afraid of everything from our kitten to ladybugs. If he is hungry or wants to call his grandma instead of coming and saying something to us he hangs out in the dark kitchen or dining room and waits for one of us to walk in there. It's fucking creepy. He doesn't care about me, his dad or his little sister. He treats us like the bad guys and like his mom is the end all be all. When the truth is his mom is a piece of shit and lost custody of him and his brother(who has a different father) because she is a terrible mother. We had to involve CPS and it was ruled in court that she abandoned my SS.
I'm so over this whole thing and wish his mother would get her shit together so he can go back and live with her. But that is probably not going to happen considering she just had a third child by a third man and can't even pay the $50 a MONTH she is ordered to pay in child support. $50 a month and we haven't seen a penny.
I don't treat him any different. I take care of him, cook for him, do his laundry, help him with his homework, hug him goodnight but deep inside I dislike him so so much.
Bash away, tell me what a terrible person I am, I don't care. There are days that I feel guilty about it but I can't help how I feel. It would be different if he was making as much of an effort to be a part of our family as I am to include him but he's not.