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dh is gay... edit

Anonymous
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Dh came out of the closet three weeks ago and now our son and I just found a place to stay. After coming out, he kicked us out. Everything was in his name but my car. I stupidly let him convince me to quit my job to raise our 9mo son and when I came home that day, the locks were changed. I was holding my son when i found or and nearly fainted. I called his number and it was cut off. My mom came and got the baby and I went to his job.

Long story short... Dh had me escorted out, after serving me the divorce papers. And by serving them to me, I mean throwing them in my face.

That night I stayed with my mom and stalked his Facebook where he changed his status to in a relationship with someone. I click it and see a bleached blond girl with basketballs for tits and she's 19! Dh is 40 and I'm 24 btw. After about thirty minutes of reading her statuses, I discover that she started seeing him after I got pregnant and that these business trips he told me about were actually sex vacations with this teenager.

We've been married for two years now and dated the other two and I've been the perfect wife. Sex when he wanted it, home cooked meals every morning and night, clean house, spontaneous trips and everything. This asshole cheats on me after he purposely knocks me up? Now I'm staying in a vacation home that my dad rents for me because my mother has like twelve dogs.

Eta:
He lied about being gay so i wouldn't find out about his play thing and bring it up
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 25, 2013 at 5:15 PM
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wumbo
by on Mar. 25, 2013 at 5:17 PM
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Sooo... Hes gay or a cheater?
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Mommy2b2many
by on Mar. 25, 2013 at 5:17 PM
:( I am so sorry. I understand that sometimes men want out... but really? Claiming to be gay? I am so sorry :( I hope everything works out for you and ds.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 25, 2013 at 5:18 PM
He isn't gay. He lied


Quoting wumbo:Sooo... Hes gay or a cheater?
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.Nucking.Futs.
by on Mar. 25, 2013 at 5:18 PM
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I don't think Gay Men like Lady Tits.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 25, 2013 at 5:19 PM
I'm so confused!
TaLeahMB
by on Mar. 25, 2013 at 5:20 PM
I'm confused. He lied about being gay?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 25, 2013 at 5:20 PM
He lied.


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm so confused!

imamombygrace
by Silver Member on Mar. 25, 2013 at 5:20 PM
Wow! I'm sorry. Did he lie about being gay to cover up dating someone so young? I can't understand how he lives with himself leaving a wife and a child to fend for themselves.
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New.OrleansLady
by Platinum Member on Mar. 25, 2013 at 5:20 PM
Yikes. Sounds like you're better off without him. He may be going through some early midlife Chrisis
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 25, 2013 at 5:21 PM
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I'm sorry but you are surprised he upgraded to a younger version. It seemed logical that he would eventually. Sorry he is an ass. Take him for everything he has.

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