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I dont think he will be a father if I leave him.....

Anonymous
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Basically I have to stay with him in order for him to spend time with his son. He threatens to leave and not spend time or see his son. I am so sick of HIS DOUBLE STANDARD BS!!!!!!


The sad thing is I KNOW I AM A good women who deserves better but i feel like a FAILURE for not keeping my family together.

What should I DO!!!!! I am losing my mind. I want to do whats right for my son. But I know I shouldnt be unhappy and miserable just for my son to have a father around.

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 26, 2013 at 8:59 AM
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peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 8:59 AM
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unhappy mom = unhappy kid


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:01 AM
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Sometimes its not always better for the mom and dad to stay together. Do what you feel is right.
Sydney0510
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:01 AM
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No you should not be miserable. If he falls off, that's his loss.
EAzizM
by Erica on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:03 AM
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your son will be better off without that poor excuse of a father around. good luck.
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LilliesValley
by Ruby Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:03 AM
Your not doing your kid any favors. Leave, find someone worthy of you. If ex doesn't want to be a dad that's on him. Kids don't fair well when parents just stay together for them.
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BEXi
by BEXi on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:04 AM
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Ew, do your son a favor and LEAVE.

Pink.Sunshine
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:04 AM
Regardless, I wouldn't stay with a man like that. He's using your child to control you and so far it's working.
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scarletmeshell
by Platinum Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:04 AM

I am sorry mama but there is something wrong with your thinking. What kind of dad threatens not to be a father if you leave him? He is not worth it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:06 AM

You only have one life. Don't waste with an asshole

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:07 AM


I know there is something wrong with my thinking......and I know its so much easier to say it than to feel it.... I cant understand how he can even say those things much less go a whole week without calling to talk to his son. I could never do that :(

Quoting scarletmeshell:

I am sorry mama but there is something wrong with your thinking. What kind of dad threatens not to be a father if you leave him? He is not worth it.



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