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He said I'M abusive....?!

Anonymous
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Last night DH and I were laying in bed talking. Just normal conversation. No arguing or anything. Then I said "Shh... I hear something" and I was listening because I thought I heard a weird noise. He says "Shut the fuck up." Out of nowhere. No reason. I didn't do anything to him to deserve that. I was so shocked and pissed that I slapped him on the arm. He got mad and went and slept on the couch and now he is calling me abusive. He says he wasn't serious when he said that... that it was just a joke. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?! I told him he is lucky he didn't get slapped in the face for talking to his wife like that. He didn't say it in a joking way at all and even if he wasn't serious... you just don't say that!


Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:14 AM
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audreesmama
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:15 AM
We don't talk to each other or hit...I would consider both abusive.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:15 AM
Your both abusive.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:16 AM
We shouldn't use our hands to hurt. Smh. Use your words!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:16 AM
Well, if you hit him and it wasn't playful then it is abuse... assault really..
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:17 AM

I can agree with that. He shouldn't have said what he said and I shouldn't have slapped him. If anything, we're even! How does he have the right to be pissed at ME and act like HE did nothing wrong?!

BEXi
by BEXi on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:17 AM

lol... so dumb. neither of you are abusive.

jessi2girls
by Ruby Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:17 AM

*eye roll*.. yeah you are innocent.. sure *eye roll*

best this marriage won't last for much longer.

AleaKat
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:18 AM
My DH says that to me joking on occasion and I do t find it abusive and I dont slap him.
We do that playful banter all the time.
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:18 AM

Yeah, I bet it won't either. It has lasted 8 years too long.

Quoting jessi2girls:

*eye roll*.. yeah you are innocent.. sure *eye roll*

best this marriage won't last for much longer.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 26, 2013 at 9:18 AM
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Lol, honey you need to toughen up, I would have laughed at my DH if he said that to me then turned around and told him the same thing, we probably would have laughed about it.  Sometimes you can't take things so seriously, pick your battles I don't think this was a couch worthy fight.  

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