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My SO's mom is messing up our relationship (vent)

Anonymous
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Ok so iv been on here the past few days bitching about SO's mom

She came down to Colorado to help us pack and get ready to move to NC

Well I'm at my breaking point and ready to leave

Not only has she said she would rather him be with another women (who is married) but she walks away while I'm talking to her or tells me to just shut up all ready

Last night SO and I were talking about how he needs to keep calling this guy till the guy answers so he can be done clearing base

And she walks out of our room and goes "either you stop fighting or I'm gonna get involved"

So we went outside to talk about it

I had the window open so I could keep an eye on my dd ( who was suppose to be going to bed) and she walks up to the window ask why it's open

In the middle of me explaining she shuts it and flips me off

Then today my SO went into the room to talk to her..... The door was open and they where whispering

I walked by to use the restroom and yep they are in there talking shit about me!!!!!

When SO came out I told him "your mom needs to find somewhere else to stay because I'm done.... If she has a problem with me she can tell me instead of talking shit"

He tells me " we were talking about dinner.."

WTF ever
I'm done when I get back inside I'm telling him I'm looking for a new place to live
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:05 PM
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bellaamore
by Gold Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:07 PM
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Id do the same. If his mommy keeps his balls in her hand and he cant stand up to her, he doesnt need a family, he lready has one.

mommymelissa76
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:11 PM

how annoying. Im so glad I get along with my MIL

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:14 PM

You are military? Trying to live on post? You can't unless you are married.

Anyway, if THEY are talking shit about you then why are you w/him?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:16 PM
I'm leaving him

And he is on terminal leave so technically not military anymore


Quoting Anonymous:

You are military? Trying to live on post? You can't unless you are married.


Anyway, if THEY are talking shit about you then why are you w/him?


AVSpecWife4
by Ruby Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:18 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:18 PM

 Then why is he calling to clear base?  Why are you moving w/him if you are leaving him & why are you bitching about his mother & saying she is messing up your relationship w/him if you arent stayin together anyway?


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm leaving him

And he is on terminal leave so technically not military anymore


Quoting Anonymous:

You are military? Trying to live on post? You can't unless you are married.


Anyway, if THEY are talking shit about you then why are you w/him?



 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:19 PM
Thank you


Quoting AVSpecWife4:

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MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:19 PM

 And you are wondering why she doesn't like you??

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm leaving him

And he is on terminal leave so technically not military anymore


Quoting Anonymous:

You are military? Trying to live on post? You can't unless you are married.


Anyway, if THEY are talking shit about you then why are you w/him?


 

AVSpecWife4
by Ruby Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:19 PM
I was saving my spot. No problem. I don't blame you for being done with that crap.

Quoting Anonymous:

Thank you




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KeiraRose
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:20 PM

Finding a place for you and you dd sounds like the best solution. Your SO needs to be a man and stick up for you and tell him mommy to grow the hell up. Sorry you're having issues :(

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