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His family doesn't want me to take DF last name

Anonymous
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I'm getting married May 14th.  We had lunch with his family today, and they brought up the wedding. At lunch, it was MIL, SIL, BIL, FIL, DF, and me. 

They all have (as they call them) "hispanic names" and my name doesn't fit. Actually, i don't think its my name, i think its ME. I have blonde hair and blue eyes, and they think its weird that i would be white and have a hispanic sounding last name. I never really thought of not taking his name, and i still plan on taking his last name. But they all agreed (besides DF) that i shouldn't. 

Last name is De La Cruz


Alayna De La Cruz

I get along fine with his family, but to me this seems more like its against me then it is caring about a last name..

What do you think? I'm still taking his last name. Our son has his last name :)



Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:10 PM
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.Nucking.Futs.
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:11 PM
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They can go fuck themselves.
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Hi_Rae
by Gold Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:12 PM
I think it sounds fine. Besides its your life, family, and name who cares what anyone else thinks
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TheSidewinder
by Bronze Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:13 PM
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I think your name goes well with it. 

brettsmomma
by ~Tammie~ on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:13 PM

I think they are being stupid.

Gabrielle1982
by Bronze Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:14 PM

 I don't know, that sounds weird.  All I can think in a nice way is...nope, lost it.  Just do what is right for you and your dh, don't worry about them.

sweetieiv
by Ruby Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:14 PM
I think that you should pretend to agree with them but then change it anyways and show them your id once you do. Just as a little fuck off from you to them :)
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mistie900
by Gold Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:15 PM
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I think your name sounds nice with it. Who cares what they think
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bleumonster
by Ruby Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:15 PM
This.


Quoting Hi_Rae:

I think it sounds fine. Besides its your life, family, and name who cares what anyone else thinks

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sassygoddess
by Bronze Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:16 PM

 I like the way it sounds together...tell them to a long walk off a short pier..and go away...LOL

DazeDelights
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 6:16 PM
Lol they have lost their minds.
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