I am 24 years old(birthday was in February) and have a 3 year old and 9 month old twins. After my twins were born I got on birth control(Mirena) and we had planned to wait 4-5 years before TTC again. Major surprise when we found out we were pregnant...so here we are, pregnant(due in July) and our children will be 3 and around 13 months when number 4 is born. I have gotten so much negativity about this baby it is ridiculous. I have been called a bad mother. Been told I won't have any time for any of my children. Been told they will resent me. All sorts of crap. Many people have told me that I should have aborted as soon as we found out. It's not like we got pregnant because we were being irresponsible. And the timing isn't great, but we are excited and look forward to what another baby will bring to our family. Would you say I am a bad mom for having 4 kids that will be 3 and under at the age of 24?!