Or who you need him to be.
and that way you won't be complaining about your useless husband....because you actually took the time to get to know him and what he was like, BEFORE you fucked him, got pregnant and got married because you were pregnant.
Or, you took the time to get to know him and realied, BEFORE you got married, that he was lazy, rude, mean, selfish, gross, disgusting, abusive, alcoholic, a molester, or whatever.
Because, if half the women on here had taken five minutes to get to know their husbands, well Cafemom wouldn't exist as the 'my husband is an asshole' place it is, because no one would be on here man bashing all the time.
She copied and pasted a photo into her reply.
It's not her job to elaborate for people who are little too slow to understand what she means.
Quoting elizabooks:and the op couldn't put that on the original post?
it is a to way street. the guy should take the time to get to know her as well.
That's why I married my best friend, and the most incredible man I know. I do love all of the natural growth we've done as individuals and as a couple/family.
Quoting elizabooks:and the op couldn't put that on the original post? it is a to way street. the guy should take the time to get to know her as well.
It is a pic. Why should I have to elaborate?
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