Okay, so almost a year and a half ago, before my DH and I were married, he cheated on me. We broke up for a few months and went our seperate ways but came back to each other. I forgave him and we got back together and a year later we got married. I love him with all that I am and I know he feels guilty about what he did (we go to counseling now). Sometimes it just hits me though and hurts me all over again. . . Have any of you ladies been cheated on or have you ever cheated on your husband? If so, how did you deal with it and how long did it take for your "heart to not hurt".