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Cheating. . . :/

Anonymous
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Okay, so almost a year and a half ago, before my DH and I were married, he cheated on me. We broke up for a few months and went our seperate ways but came back to each other. I forgave him and we got back together and a year later we got married. I love him with all that I am and I know he feels guilty about what he did (we go to counseling now). Sometimes it just hits me though and hurts me all over again. . . Have any of you ladies been cheated on or have you ever cheated on your husband? If so, how did you deal with it and how long did it take for your "heart to not hurt".

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 27, 2013 at 8:13 PM
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Nickie76
by Silver Member on Mar. 27, 2013 at 8:15 PM
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My thoughts about him cheating kept popping up and I eventually found a real man. After the divorce of course lol.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 27, 2013 at 8:19 PM
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No clue I guess I am lucky because I have never been cheated on. If I had I would not have married the man that cheated.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 27, 2013 at 8:22 PM
Did he physically or mentally cheat?


Quoting Nickie76:

My thoughts about him cheating kept popping up and I eventually found a real man. After the divorce of course lol.

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by Emerald Member on Mar. 27, 2013 at 8:23 PM
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i dont stay with cheaters.  

For me all trust is lost



gl though

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 27, 2013 at 8:24 PM
As someone who cheated - we should have just split up (we eventually divorced). I don't think it ever goes away.
kidlover2
by on Mar. 27, 2013 at 8:25 PM
I was cheated on and he left. I didn't have a choice in the matter. It took me about 6 months to get over it and a life time of distrust.
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by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 27, 2013 at 8:25 PM
I was cheated on, we broke up for 2 years got back together and everything was fine for about a year until he cheated on me. We have been divorced now for 5 years.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Mar. 27, 2013 at 8:26 PM

I've been cheating on my husband. It's kinda hard to deal with all the emotions and the guilt, but the sex with the other guy (he's married too) is awesome.

Nickie76
by Silver Member on Mar. 27, 2013 at 8:26 PM
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Both... Your heart will always hurt and your head will always want to forget. That is the sad reality of cheating. You can try and make it work (I commend you for that.) I tried to but it got to a point where I'd be at a grocery store and always wondered if the woman walking by me was "her". That's not living.
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by Anonymous 7 on Mar. 27, 2013 at 8:28 PM
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Yes, he cheated on me with a good friend.. So I thought. I got back at him by cheating with my ex. Did it hurt me, yes. I think the worst part was it being a close friend, and the fact that she could do this to me. It actually got to the point where she held it over his head and was telling him lies about me. So I acted upon those lies. I got over it years later and him and I are still together. But what gets me is she is still harassing us after all these years. I could go into more detail but it would be long. I guess you just have to build trust its not that easy when trust had been broken.
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