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Can someone explain the "rules" to me?

Anonymous
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Dh and I have been seperated a month. We do plan on getting back together down the road, but in the meantime, he wants us both to explore our options with other people. But he's told me he won't because I'm not sure I want to.

If in the event I start poking around, is it technically cheating? Since we plan on moving back in with each other.

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:54 AM
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peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:54 AM

I would say that is up to you 2 to decide what is cheating

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:56 AM
I'd say he's going to do it so you might as well too.
jendigme
by Bronze Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:56 AM
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It sounds like his way of getting a free pass to me...do u feel do u feel comfortable with that idea? If u don't, I would say no. But, that's up to you. If you so, I'd make for certain you both use protection.
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krissy920
by Gold Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:56 AM
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rachel never forgave ross , when they were on a break..

Hannahluvsdogs
by Ruby Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:56 AM

This sounds like a disaster in the making. He wants you both to explore being with other people, but he's not going to? So what's the point of the separation? If you do see other people and he doesn't, is he going to hold that against you when you get back together?

Hannahluvsdogs
by Ruby Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:57 AM

LOL I was thinking that too.

Quoting krissy920:

rachel never forgave ross , when they were on a break..


4weeman
by Silver Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:57 AM

uuuuhhhh.... why are you not living together, but plan to get back together later? seems silly. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:58 AM

Get off the fence- if you are contemplating having sex with someone else then why bother getting back together? If it's just sex establish that but the outlook seems grim.

fallenstars
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:58 AM
To me its cheating unless the divorce papers are final
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partingwhisper
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:58 AM

if you are still married that is called cheating even if you are temporarily seperated. wanting to have his cake and eat it too is NOT putting in work on salvaging the marriage. 

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