DH's ex is harassing us because we are taking the kids to church.
She is an athiest and expected to raise her children that way. When they were together, never married, DH was agnostic. When they split, they had 2 kids ages 6 months and the other was 4 years old. At that time, a friend of DH's started getting him to go to church, which is where me and DH met.
Now we are married and have been for 3 months and we go every Sunday. I have a child of my own and his kids are 2 1/2 and 6 years old. We have been going back and fourth about what to do on the Sunday we have the kids, he wants to take them but doesn't want a fight with their mom.Up until about 6 months ago, he only had visitation every other Friday night till Saturday evening but he went back to court to get more time and the judge gave him every other Friday afternoon, after the oldest gets out of school, till monday morning when the oldest goes to school, plus every wednesday plus he gets half of the breaks and half of the summer.
DH realized that they are his kids too and he should be allowed to take them to church on his time. Last time we had them, we took them and BM flipped about it (he has taken them a few times before but BM didn't know about it, now she blames me for it). We have also decided to go to church Wednesday evening so they will be with us then too.
She blames me for it because I have always gone to church and she thinks I am the one who is pushing it. They way I see it, when you don't stay with your child's other parent, you will have to accept the fact that they may do things differently when they have the kids then you do.