Need the best advise on this? I will try to explain this in a way you can unnderstand.
OK I have 3 kids by one man, 3 kids by another. My second kids daddy does for his kids, but not for the other man kids. Now he wants to marry me. He will do for my last child that's not his, because he was with me every since he was 4 months. But the first kids daddy he lives down the road and can see his kids anytime he wants. Do I not marry him because of this, and let his kids be hurt because their daddy is not here. Or do you think counseling can help this mess. Or do I wait until the kids are grown, and then mary him?
Edit: So why is nobody saying their daddy need to take care of his own kids. He is living I can see if he was dead.