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Need the best advise on this? I will try to explain this in a way you can unnderstand.

Anonymous
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OK I have 3 kids by one man, 3 kids by another. My second kids daddy does for his kids, but not for the other man kids. Now he wants to marry me. He will do for my last child that's not his, because he was with me every since he was 4 months. But the first kids daddy he lives down the road and can see his kids anytime he wants. Do I not marry him because of this, and let his kids be hurt because their daddy is not here. Or do you think counseling can help this mess. Or do I wait until the kids are grown, and then mary him?

 

Edit: So why is nobody saying their daddy need to take care of his own kids. He is living I can see if he was dead.

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 28, 2013 at 1:32 PM
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ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Mar. 28, 2013 at 1:34 PM
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*backs out of post*

etsmom
by Ruby Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 1:36 PM
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You are a packaged deal. When you marry, that marriage will include all your kids, not just his.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 28, 2013 at 1:38 PM
I don't understand the 'does for his kids' part. What he does?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 28, 2013 at 1:40 PM
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Ask Maury
frankiesma530
by Platinum Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 1:41 PM

does things for them, takes care of them

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't understand the 'does for his kids' part. What he does?


frankiesma530
by Platinum Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 1:42 PM
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And OP, if he can't treat all the kids the same, I would not marry him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 28, 2013 at 1:43 PM

Honey we are going to the zoo. Please make sure you take out enough money from your separate account to pay for those other kids. I am going to pay for you and our kids. 

Life sounds like it is going to be very very interesting if you marry into that situation. 

vivi_la_juicy
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 1:43 PM
I'm confused! =/
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shamillionaire
by Gold Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 1:43 PM
Leave him. He sounds like a douche!
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PinkyPan
by Ruby Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 1:44 PM

Do NOT marry him.

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