They are now expecting their first child together, they can't take care of the kids they have from past relationships(her son our daughter his other kids).
They guy i've been seeing has a son that he sees and takes care of that is my daughters age. My daughter is 3 and the guy i'm seeing hasn't met her yet. My daughters dad has had his wife around her since he started taking her alone 2 years ago. This woman drinks does drugs and has even put my daughter out into the cold at 3am during one of her drunken rages(she has said that he took our daughter and left on his own).
When i brought it up about moving in with this guy i've been seeing for 2 years my daughters dad got uber pissed and said if i do he's filing for full custody. Bf says let him try and we'll do whatever we can to keep her.
Bf would never hurt my lil girl or me. Bf loves us both and only wants whats best for us, he's a hard working decent guy and is willing to help me raise my daughter like she is his. Granted bf lives in another city and my little girls dad is only willing to let me move out of state if i move ALONE with our daughter.
My daughters dad is super jelous and has threatend to beat up anyone that comes near us. Bf still lives in the same state as us.
I'll be going to see bf in two weeks and want to be prepared incase the move issue comes up. I know it will the only problem is my daughters dad.
My lil girls dad and me do not talk we currently have my mom doing pick ups and drop offs. Daughters dad doesn't want to see me with another man.....but he's married, how can i make him see he needs to get over himself and us because i do have a right to be happy just like he is?