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I Slept With A Married Man....

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

I didn't know he was married.

We had been seeing each other for a couple of months and our relationship had just recently become physical.

As soon as I found out he was married, I broke things off with him.

I feel like total shit...and now I'm debating on whether or not I should contact his wife.

What should I do? Please don't bash...I feel shitty enough as is...

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:00 AM
Replies (31-40):
Anastacia1988
by Gold Member on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:18 AM
Let her know ... And any woman who would steal a man and have a relationship is stupid and naive to think it won't happen to her next
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raynesmommy1
by Bronze Member on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:20 AM

uh oh hoochie momma lol Just kidding I am sorry you got cut up in slime just take a shower forget this dude and thank God that it didn't get as serious as it could have been. 

lifeforchrist
by on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:21 AM

I'd call the wife! He didn't tell you he was married, and that's messed up.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:25 AM
I would tell her, she has the right to know. I would want to know. She may chose to believe him over you but at least your conscience will be clear.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:53 AM

I have pictures of us together...there are some of us kissing...

Quoting livingforthem83:

I would want to know, but at the same time if he denied it I would believe him until I get physical evidence.


BlessedBeX3
by on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:55 AM

 do not contact his wife.

she doesn't need your ass throwing in her face that you slept with her husband

just leave the two of them alone and move on with your life.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:56 AM

Maybe I'm reading this the wrong way (or me just feeling guilty), but I didn't steal him...I didn't know he was married.

Quoting Anastacia1988:

Let her know ... And any woman who would steal a man and have a relationship is stupid and naive to think it won't happen to her next


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:57 AM

I'm not wanting to "throw it in her face." I just feel like shit.

Quoting BlessedBeX3:

 do not contact his wife.

she doesn't need your ass throwing in her face that you slept with her husband

just leave the two of them alone and move on with your life.


ginger813
by on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:58 AM
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I would send her an anonymous letter, with some exact dates and times that the two of you were together (so she knows it's real). Just explain to her that you had no idea, and you broke it off as soon as you found out.

CuriousArentYa
by Platinum Member on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:59 AM

Leave it alone. 

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