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I Slept With A Married Man....

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

I didn't know he was married.

We had been seeing each other for a couple of months and our relationship had just recently become physical.

As soon as I found out he was married, I broke things off with him.

I feel like total shit...and now I'm debating on whether or not I should contact his wife.

What should I do? Please don't bash...I feel shitty enough as is...

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:00 AM
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BlessedBeX3
by on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:59 AM
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 It will make you feel better, but not her

if you really feel its the best thing to do, send an anonymous letter to her home with the pic of you two, your face blocked out.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm not wanting to "throw it in her face." I just feel like shit.

Quoting BlessedBeX3:

 do not contact his wife.

she doesn't need your ass throwing in her face that you slept with her husband

just leave the two of them alone and move on with your life.

 

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:59 AM

i would want to know and it could save heart ache later down the line, i wouldn't just let it go hun, he did both of you wrong and i think she has the right to know what a piece of shit he really is.

dbush0584
by Platinum Member on Mar. 29, 2013 at 12:00 PM
he could bring diseases back to his pregnant wife if he's cheating. That's fucked up.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 29, 2013 at 12:01 PM

Neither outcome will make me feel better.

Quoting BlessedBeX3:

 It will make you feel better, but not her

if you really feel its the best thing to do, send an anonymous letter to her home with the pic of you two, your face blocked out.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm not wanting to "throw it in her face." I just feel like shit.

Quoting BlessedBeX3:

 do not contact his wife.

she doesn't need your ass throwing in her face that you slept with her husband

just leave the two of them alone and move on with your life.


 


Anastacia1988
by on Mar. 29, 2013 at 12:03 PM
No I'm not saying you are you didn't know I just mean from here on out be done because cheaters will alway do it to the next and a lot of women how fall for the man and get them to leave always get cheated on... It was just more of a general view on the topic .... Don't feel guilty he wasn't honest


Quoting Anonymous:

Maybe I'm reading this the wrong way (or me just feeling guilty), but I didn't steal him...I didn't know he was married.

Quoting Anastacia1988:

Let her know ... And any woman who would steal a man and have a relationship is stupid and naive to think it won't happen to her next



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JLS2388
by on Mar. 29, 2013 at 12:05 PM

How could you possibly be seeing a man for months and not realize he is married? Didn't you think it was strange that you never went to his home?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Mar. 29, 2013 at 12:08 PM
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If I was the wife I would want to know. What if he gives her an sti? What about the next girl he sleeps with while still married to her.
Rose-
by on Mar. 29, 2013 at 12:10 PM
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I would personally contact her and it wouldn't be because I was mad at him, it is more because of my morals and if my husband was cheating on me I would want to know about it.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Mar. 29, 2013 at 12:10 PM
from the wifes point(my ex did this to me while i was pregnant) tell her.when one told me i did some digging and found 5 others.
EvilAsh
by on Mar. 29, 2013 at 12:11 PM

I sleep with a married man all the time.

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