I fell in love with my bio dad.. Ask me anything. *ETA
ETA: Okay, so I have been meaning to add the whole back story on here, but I havent been to a computer and honestly I didn't feel like typing all this out on my mobile.
When I was 18, my mother passed away. I never knew my biological father. She wouldn't tell him name, birthday, what he looked like.. nothing. If I ever asked questions she would guilt trip me and say 'what? what i not enough.' She did tell me that she got pregnant at 13 years old and that when my grandparents found out they moved to a different state.
So my mother passes away and I see this as an option to go and try to find my biological father. Like I said, I didnt know anything about him. The only lead I had was the town that my mother had lived in when she 13 years old when she got pregnant with me. I figured at that age, she most likely didnt meet anyone from a different town. So I went there, a city with about 2500 people. I went to her old middle school and asked aroind if anyone knew her. They either didnt know her or didnt remember. I kept asking questions for about 6 months. I didnt get any leads, no clues, nothing. So I gave up.
I had previously got a job, moved out of the hotel into my own place and started my life over. My mother was not a very nice person and I didnt have any other family, so I didn't see a reason to go back to where I came from. About 3 months after giving up on looking for biological father, I met this man at the Sunday church service.
We talked, hung out, and eventually moved in with eachother. About 7-8 years later, I got pregnant with my now son. We were both estatic. That was short lived because when our son was only 3, we found out that he had cancer. He needed a bone marrow transplant, so me and my SO both got tested to see if we were matches. Well, come to find out that my SO, is my biological father.
We ended the realstionship. We were both upset, sad, hurt, and in a way disgusted. I was also VERY angry with my mother. Because of her selfishness, I ended up falling in love with my own FATHER!
I went threw extensive counseling and now I am in a such better place. My biological father and I still commuicate, but only for our son. No, we have not told him and we are both unsure if we are ever going to tell him.