See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
i co signed my sons lease for his apartment(he's 19), he pays the rent and all that jazz but he wanted to move out on his own after he graduated high school. anyway so i go over there to visit today since my son doesnt go into work until 3 pm on fridays, and he showed me his new tattoo that he got showed me the new furniture he got himself and i then noticed someone in the bathroom, throwing up...so i just ask him "do you have someone over?" he says "yeah and thats something else i want to talk to you about" i say "well what is it?" he then says "well you know how you havent come over here in a while because of whats going on with grandma and grandpa?" i nod yes and he continues "well i didnt want to add to your stress at all, but you remember Fae? the girl i told you that i met at the dealer ship before i moved here?" i nod yes again and he still continues "well me and her have been dating since i moved in here and idk what went wrong but shes pregnant" i look at him funny and say "shes pregnant? how far a long is she because i havent been over here in 4 1/2 months" he nods at me and says "shes been living here for 6 months and shes 16 weeks pregnant....we find out if its a boy or a girl in 2 weeks" i just smile at him and say "its going to be rough, especially since shes only 18 and your only 19" his eyes got wide and says "your not mad?" i just say "no, im disappointed because i wanted you to be more established, but im not mad at you, go check on her and make sure shes ok before she throws up a lung" he just laughs and bring her back out, i had never met her before, he olny told me about her, shes a sweet person from what i gathered by talking to her today and im actually glad my son found someone like her, shes a little on the strange side but so is my son...hell my son works at a harley dealership lol i was disappointed at first, now that i know they are both working i feel slightly better but im still worried and a little disappointed