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i hate my dumba** friend!! *UPDATE #5*

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This week I told my friend I was needing help cleaning and raking my yard. I'm trying to get it ready for the landscapers to plant flowers in a month. She said that's fine! She would be happy to help! We were supposed to get started tomorrow morning.

Well, she called today to tell me she couldn't help me this weekend because her family is having a reunion tomorrow afternoon.

She sees her freaking family everyday practically!! I am so pissed! I feel like calling her mom and telling her that she was supposed to help me, NOT go to some stupid reunion!

I need to get this done. I'm so pissed at her! I'm not sure if I should call her mom or just tell her I can't be friends with someone that goes back on their word.


*UPDATE* I called her mom. She said," ----- told me about you getting upset, I'm so sorry, we didn't know she was supposed to help you.... blah blah... I told her it's fine if she wants to come later or leave the reunion early ski she can still help"
I'm about to call my friend to see which she wants to do.


*UPDATE #2* I called my friend.d twice but she's not answering. I texted her like 7 times and she hasn't responded. She better text or call back. If she doesn't ill be making an unexpected visit to her pathetic apartment.


*UPDATE 3* my friend finally called me back, she said she's going to skip the reunion altogether! I'm so excited! I knew she wasn't that big of a bitch. Also my brother is coming to help. I had asked him before my friend called back. He said he was going to do an Easter egg hunt with his wifes family but he'll help anyway. I will have 2 people to share a beautiful day with!!


*UPDATE #4* I just checked the freaking forecast, whaddaya know?? Its supposed to rain all freaking day tomorrow! I am so pissed. Oh well. I can still get her to help clean my basement or SOMETHING.



*Update#5* well, my friend came and stayed the night last night. We had a long talk about respect. My brother came too, he was being stand-offish, but he loosened up after a couple hours. We cleaned my flower beds, it looks great! My friend started whining about going to the reunion so I said just fucking go. But she said she didn't want to make me mad. So we cleaned up some stuff in my basement, dismantled an old entertainment center. Productive day!!!

My hubbys about to take me for a romantic dinner for all my hard work :) he spoils me!
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:31 PM
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Dreamly
by on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:34 PM
Lmfao
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aiyess
by Gold Member on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:35 PM
Then you should ask the mom to help you instead of her.


Quoting Anonymous:

No me and her mom are really close. She likes me better than her own daughter!




Quoting LiesLiesLies:

Um WTF?





You sound like a shitty friend.





Calling her mom? Lol! Grow up!


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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:35 PM
No, she told me she'd help. I already bought us brand new freaking gloves and I was planning on a picnic lunch.


Quoting partingwhisper:

and because she has family obligations that definitely come before helping rake a yard you hate her? selfish and ungrateful much?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:36 PM
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Umm it's your damn yard...she could have told you sooner maybe but helloooooo it's Easter weekend most people would rather be with family then at a demanding "friends" ...and you said you have a month not 24hrs
nataliesmom2012
by Platinum Member on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:37 PM

How old are you?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:37 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:37 PM
Grow up! At least she called to let you know instead of standing you up. I would rather have her call opposed to not at all. You want it done that badly here someone or do it yourself!
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:37 PM
She knew it was Easter weekend when we made plans!


Quoting Anonymous:

Umm it's your damn yard...she could have told you sooner maybe but helloooooo it's Easter weekend most people would rather be with family then at a demanding "friends" ...and you said you have a month not 24hrs

katieross
by Silver Member on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:38 PM
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I'm calling your mommy on you!!! grow up? LOL. You my dear sound like the crappy friend. It's your house do it yourself. It's Easter weekend... families get together, in case you haven't noticed.

LizzieAnnesMom
by ☆Mrs.Winchester☆ on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:38 PM
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lol you are going to run and tell her mommy on her? how old are you? it is a holiday weekend. if her family is having a reunion, you need to get over it. how trashy is your yard that you need that much help?
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