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i hate my dumba** friend!! *UPDATE #5*

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This week I told my friend I was needing help cleaning and raking my yard. I'm trying to get it ready for the landscapers to plant flowers in a month. She said that's fine! She would be happy to help! We were supposed to get started tomorrow morning.

Well, she called today to tell me she couldn't help me this weekend because her family is having a reunion tomorrow afternoon.

She sees her freaking family everyday practically!! I am so pissed! I feel like calling her mom and telling her that she was supposed to help me, NOT go to some stupid reunion!

I need to get this done. I'm so pissed at her! I'm not sure if I should call her mom or just tell her I can't be friends with someone that goes back on their word.

*UPDATE* I called her mom. She said," ----- told me about you getting upset, I'm so sorry, we didn't know she was supposed to help you.... blah blah... I told her it's fine if she wants to come later or leave the reunion early ski she can still help"
I'm about to call my friend to see which she wants to do.

*UPDATE #2* I called my friend.d twice but she's not answering. I texted her like 7 times and she hasn't responded. She better text or call back. If she doesn't ill be making an unexpected visit to her pathetic apartment.

*UPDATE 3* my friend finally called me back, she said she's going to skip the reunion altogether! I'm so excited! I knew she wasn't that big of a bitch. Also my brother is coming to help. I had asked him before my friend called back. He said he was going to do an Easter egg hunt with his wifes family but he'll help anyway. I will have 2 people to share a beautiful day with!!

*UPDATE #4* I just checked the freaking forecast, whaddaya know?? Its supposed to rain all freaking day tomorrow! I am so pissed. Oh well. I can still get her to help clean my basement or SOMETHING.

*Update#5* well, my friend came and stayed the night last night. We had a long talk about respect. My brother came too, he was being stand-offish, but he loosened up after a couple hours. We cleaned my flower beds, it looks great! My friend started whining about going to the reunion so I said just fucking go. But she said she didn't want to make me mad. So we cleaned up some stuff in my basement, dismantled an old entertainment center. Productive day!!!

My hubbys about to take me for a romantic dinner for all my hard work :) he spoils me!
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:31 PM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:46 PM
Yes she's very Shitty for this. Id help if I had promised.

Quoting paknari:

Umm you would expect someone to help you out on Easter weekend with something that you slacked off on and is your responsibility? I get that she offered to help you and that's pretty shitty but you can't expect people to forget holidays to do your work. Would you go do someones yard work on the fourth of July?

by Lube Girl on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:47 PM

Just wow

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:48 PM
All of her brothers and cousins have crushes on me. Its SUPER awkward.

Quoting horseap:

 Really, then why werent you invited to the reunion?

Quoting Anonymous:

No me and her mom are really close. She likes me better than her own daughter!

Quoting LiesLiesLies:


You sound like a shitty friend.

Calling her mom? Lol! Grow up!


by ☆Mrs.Winchester☆ on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:48 PM
same here. i have a huge yard with three pecan trees, a pine tree, and an oak. i never aksed my friends to help. especially on a holiday weekend.

Quoting tlcory:

Why do you need help raking your own yard? I've never asked any friend to help me with my domestic duties, i don't understand. 

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by Geek Goddess on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:48 PM
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All this over fucking LEAVES?!!?!! You do realize that the landscapers aren't coming for a month. Where do you live that your leaves need desperate attention?

by Ruby Member on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:49 PM
Its a holiday weekend
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by Anonymous 9 on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:49 PM

Don't call her mom. Seriously. That is so childish. Get over it.

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:49 PM
I didn't think that helping friends was stupidity. Grow up.

Quoting nataliesmom2012:

Soooo you're obviously not in high school anymore. What's up with the stupidity?

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting nataliesmom2012:

How old are you?

by Platinum Member on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:49 PM
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Whaaaa Whaaa !!! Do it yourself. Shit, does she know you are being so rude? Sorry, but family comes first... And if you were my friend, I would make you rake that shit yourself...
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by Geek Goddess on Mar. 29, 2013 at 11:50 PM
The Stupid...IT BURNS!!! She probably wants to keep you from tainting their gene pool.

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