My friend has a husband that is a little weired. I never say anything to her because, she loves him. She is starting to open up a little. This is what she told me today!! My friend and her husband both work, they have a joined bank account. HE GIVES HER an allowance of $75.00 a month for what she wants to do! Now, they have $500.00 left over from their income tax. All their bills are paid plus, they are ahead! So she wants to buy a coach purse that she found for $100.00. She asked her husband if she can buy it, he said no! WTF!!! Why would you say no, why does she have to ask. Also she gets paid next week so, she said that she would replace the money then! Okay, so why can't she get it? She said that, she has to ask him money for everything! I don't get it!! She feels like he is more her father then her husband. So, what woul you say to your friend about this? Oh, and they don't have any children! So why can't she spoil herself every now and then.