My ex is supposed to pay me 180 a month in child support which he had been doing it for the last few months... but it's still a thousand behind. Today I asked him if he could buy our child a pair of shoes (we usually switch off) he tells me nice try pal you just took my tax refund. . Umm I check the account no I didn't receive anything. . And now I'm bugged bc I feel like he thinks he helps do much but I feel he does the bare minimal. . Am I wrong to feel this way? ?