Divorced me yes I would be going after him for child support and alimony. Why not I'm a sahm and before a sahw. And to top it off a special needs child which cost extra for all his medical needs. I hope he is never stupid enough to think he could just start a 2nd family.
But I wouldn't have married a man that wasn't in it for life. I think it's crazy that having a 2nd and sometimes a 3rd family is normal now of days. My husband thinks the same way.