My MIL is filing for bankruptcy. She already struggles with money as it is. But luckily (or maybe not) she's getting a good amount back on return from taxes. Her pastor who she trusts fully, he knows her whole situation yet he wants her to keep donating 10% of her paycheck plus 10% of her tax returns. I don't know but I feel like he takes advantage of her. Sometimes I think she's too gullible. Am I over thinking this??