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Your bf/husband cheats on you would you work it out or leave?

Anonymous
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It was a one time thing with a woman he knows but would you leave or would you stay?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:45 PM
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alexsmomaubrys2
by Ruby Member on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:47 PM
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I would stay and work it out if he was willing to put in the effort. I don't believe that an affair is grounds to give up on our family, it was a mistake and we are mature adults that can move past it.

I know many couples that worked through affairs and went on to have extremely happy marriages.

jojo_star
by on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:47 PM
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Leave, no questions asked. One time or ten, he cheats, I'm gone, that's it.

KairisMama
by Emerald Member on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:48 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:48 PM
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My ex-husband cheated more than once and I asked him if he could stop seeing her so we could fix our marriage. He's married to her now. Not very happily though.

LiesLiesLies
by Platinum Member on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:49 PM
Leave. Lol!

Without a doubt!
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lovelife350
by Platinum Member on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:49 PM


this

Quoting jojo_star:

Leave, no questions asked. One time or ten, he cheats, I'm gone, that's it.



amylovesnick07
by Gold Member on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:50 PM
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My DH knows that is the one way I would get a divorce.
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GagaNTattooS
by on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:50 PM
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We worked it out. We are stronger then ever.
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FL2AK
by on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:50 PM
Leave.
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Gabrielle1982
by Bronze Member on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:51 PM
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If he wanted to stay, I'd agree to work it out.  I know he would do the same if it were the other way around.  He was married before and they divorced because she cheated (she wanted the divorce, he wanted counseling) and he stills says he'd want to work it out if I did.  I think we both feel that for something like that to take place, something would had to have been very wrong and needs to be taken care of.

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