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Your bf/husband cheats on you would you work it out or leave?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
It was a one time thing with a woman he knows but would you leave or would you stay?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:45 PM
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Kage336
by on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:56 PM

It really depends. I consider cheating to be flirty messages, not just the physical act. I'd like to think we could work it out if something happened, but it really depends on a few factors: his remorse, his willingness to change, etc. I guess I'd have to go with my gut instinct.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:56 PM
Are you speaking from experience or being sarcastic?? :?
Quoting Anonymous:

Even if he got the mistress pregnant with twins and gave you AIDS and Herpes?

Quoting ACsLady:

Stay. Nothing could make me divorce my husband.



Miller0305
by Platinum Member on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:57 PM
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Leave.  Once a cheater always a cheater.  I have more respect for myself than to stay with a cheater.

Jaxsonsmama2009
by Gold Member on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:57 PM
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I would love to say that I would try to work it out, but I think I would be so crazy jealous and insecure that it would never work.
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casseopeia
by on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:57 PM

My ExH cheated, and got her pregnant.  I tried to work it out just to keep my world from changing.  He wouldn't have it.

My current Bf cheated with his Ex.  It broke us up for a bit, but I think everything is patched up.  And it REALLY, REALLY made his ex mad when we got back togeher.  Karma's a bitch.


Miller0305
by Platinum Member on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:58 PM
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Quoting ACsLady:

Stay. Nothing could make me divorce my husband.

That's so sad.

ACsLady
by on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:58 PM

Even if.

Quoting Anonymous:

Even if he got the mistress pregnant with twins and gave you AIDS and Herpes?

Quoting ACsLady:

Stay. Nothing could make me divorce my husband.



HaleyCovington
by on Mar. 31, 2013 at 11:59 PM
Emotionally I think I could work through.... Actually physically cheating I doubt I could. I know myself and it would seriously mess with my head.
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mom2bell
by on Apr. 1, 2013 at 12:00 AM
I stayed and I am so glad I did.
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ACsLady
by on Apr. 1, 2013 at 12:00 AM

Why, because I keep my word? I made a promise to him. If he were to break his to me, that's no excuse to break my word.

Quoting Miller0305:


Quoting ACsLady:

Stay. Nothing could make me divorce my husband.

That's so sad.


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