DH had a type of very short lived emotional affair. We worked it out. This was about three years ago. It would depend on the situation and other areas of our relationship but if anything happened more than once, I would be gone. Its really a choice that a person can only make for themselves.
I think I'd leave. Cheating takes a conscious effort. If he cheated, he knew what he was doing. And he did it on purpose.
It would depend on the circumstances, but if it was only a one time thing I'd most likely stay, but the trust would be severely hurt.
Once? Yes, if he's as serious about fixing things as I am, we can work things through. But if it's happened more than once, or happens again even after we've been working on things, I'd leave. Married or not.
I stayed and we worked it out, I couldn't throw away the life we were building on a one time mistake, he does know though that if he repeats that mistake I will leave him.
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