Because he was too lazy and stupid to go buy her her own bed for when she was at his house. Now he's 4 states away, and I can't get her to sleep in her own bed. All I keep getting is "But Daddy let me sleep with him." And when it's 10:00 and I'm still fighting with her to stay in bed, in her own room, I get "But Daddy let me get up and watch him play video games."
I don't know what to do...I'm at my wits end. I thought once he was gone, we could get back on a normal schedule, but it's been months and things seem to have just gotten worse. I don't know what to do or how to make her stay in her bed. Should I just let her start falling asleep with me in my bed and then putting her in her own bed and hope that oneday soon she'll get the urge to sleep in her own bed? Or should I just keep going through the nightly battle of fit throwing, temper tantrums, and screaming outbursts from her as I keep putting her back in her own bed in her own room?
And just for the record, I know she's not trying to play us against eachother becuase I went over to his house a few times to spy...I mean, play video games...just to see what the night time routine looked like and I know for a fact that these things happened.