Quoting Anonymous:Be civil and go about my business.
I would shit my pants and slap him fucking silly and ask when he got married before me! Supposely I am the ONLY wife.....
honestly I would laugh and tell dh that at least his parents don't try to hide their friendships with his exes.
I'd ask the MIL what she was thinking...and play nice with the ex wife until I could politely mention that invited or not, she shouldn't have shown up!
If my husband had been married before me, I would think it is cool that his daughter gets to spend family time together.
My MIL invites her daughter's ex to all the family functions. He is the father of her grandbaby. We all accept things didn't work out between the two of them. But they are both my nephew's parents. Heck they even invite his new wife. We all do. He is still Uncle ***** to my kids. There is not reason to exclude him just because they got divorced
not an issue she is family too
My FIL recently accidently facebook invited my DF's ex wife to an extremely private and emotional family affair. He went through facebook because it was quicker and easier to get ahold of people and not have to answer a million texts and calls. She had been threatening my DF to come in guns blaring and getting on him for things she sees as his transgressions so his whole family could "see him for the man he really is". She has a list a mile long of things he has supposedly done wrong, especially when it comes to our faith and how we practice it. She was met at the door my my DFs rather large brothers and told that if she uttered one word against him right now she would be escorted out. The affair? A memorial/grieving time for my DFs mother who had JUST passed that morning.
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