Our neighbor takes our dd to school, its a little over 5 miles away but we live too close by less.than half a mile for her to catch the bus. Well this morning as I'm walking home from taking my boys.to.there bus she stops me and says, oh I can't take Kendra this morning Mia has a DRs appointment. I say oh I hope she's feeling ok. She says yes, its just her yearly check up. Soooo you KNEW abouy this appointment before this morning but waited to tell me, nice THANKS.
So we have a back up plan just incase, my sil said she could take her every so often when our neighbor couldn't, but she wouldn't be able to do it on a regular. Well, sil back home in California for the week on vacation. Well I have a back up for the back up and thankfully they are home (they went to Dallas for Easter and were not going to be back till today but came home yesterday evening.
I know she's doing us a favor, and I really appreciate it, have told her many times how much I appreciate her, have offered to watch there kids numerous times as a thank you because we appreciate her giving our kid a ride. BUT just because she is doing us a favor doesn't mean she can be inconsiderate does it? I would never do something like that to people, maybe I'm just different but I am upset she would do that. Thankfully I have a way to get her to school but with my sil being in California if my friends had not come home from Dallas early I have no idea how I would get her to school.
Do you think someone doing a favor doesn't have to be considerate?