I found out my husband has been talking to 2 different women. I texted one. She told me it just started. And she was ending it. The other I didn't find out till this morning when I was looking up history on our cell phone records. She owns a bakery. And they talked a lot and texted. Last time was 3-16. How do I go about fing out if they had a relationship ?? Without him knowing. Well I had a friend call her acting like she was going to buy a cake. It was a woman who answered. But I haven't confronted. Oh I got statements from cell co. Thet all together sent 157 calls and text. He also has her phone # in his but under a guys name. What a dick.