Marriage counseling and haven't been married a year.
After dd was born he took off for about three months, he was super drink and would come over to see her for like five minutes a week, call me a bitch and leave. After that he was super sorry and whatever, he got me to forgive him and we got back together.
We got married in June of 2012, shortly after our dds first birthday. In August I found out I was pregnant again. I'm currently 9 months.
We don't scream and fight, we don't hit each other, we just ignore each other when one is mad. Until it caused serious issues.
He has in the past texted an ex of his in a very sexual way, had she not been two states away I know they would have hooked up. That was at the beginning of our relationship, I was like 5 months pregnant with dd.
Well two nights ago I was playing mrs. Pacman on his phone when it got a message, I opened it to make it go away it said something like "yeah we should all hang out"
He was texting an ex coworker of mine, they've been friends for years. The text that hurt me said "you know I've always had a thing for you, but I'm glad we are good friends"
I know it seems dramatic, but I'm ready to walk away, we haven't been together very long and if we have to put this much effort in already... He begged and pleaded to see a marriage counsler, he says he's depressed and wasn't looking for cheating, he just needed his ego rubbed but that's just as bad.
He disrespected me and our kids by doing that, I see this girl on a weekly bases.
I'm sorry if that was hard to understand, I'm just frustrated. He text me saying we have an appointment this Thursday, but I don't know if I want to go with him.