She is already upset about not knowing the gwnder yet even though no one knows it. Well I havent told her no visitors so how would I even go through with telling her and I know she will repeatedly ask so should i say we wont have visitors and no asking again or I will not talk to you until you can respect my wishes with my body and mine and your sons decisions about our child.
Is there any nice ways to say before you ask to be there while i give birth im not having anyone there so dont bring it up or ask everyday for the last month of my pregnancy and im not having visitors because i do not want any because they are too hecric and dont want to have to deal with them after i give birth. So please do not ask.
Im not being rude but I know whats best for me because I dont like having people see me in certain situations because I am not comfortable (I was raped for years so i cover up my body and jo one sees it except my SO and I know im not comfortable with others seeing me in any way especially if I have tk see them alot) and she is always drunk and I dont want to be around it when im giving birth or have her show up high on whatever drug shes using .