DS is 3 months. DD is 5.
With him the bond was instant, with her I had blood pressure issues and don't remember much of the first day I had her.
I has a whole hour skin to skin with him after he was born before anyone even touched him, with her she was taken because I passed out and DH and my step mom had to hold her to me to nurse because I was still out.
She also has always been daddy's girl.
They have a very close bond. She has always just seen me as a caretaker and daddy is everything to her! She even called me "a booby" until 15 months. Never mama. And if I leave her she is fine as long as she knows she is going to be fed. Lol.
I feel guilty.
I love them both the same, she is my princess, a great little lady. So helpful and the nicest little sassy girl ever!
But with DS it's different. I feel like he ha always just been with me.
I am going anon just because I know some will call me a bad mom, but I am just wondering if this is common?