He is unable to take criticism and cannot function at his job. It's so stressful for him he has panic attacks high blood pressure feels like he wants to pass out and vomits. He took off work today and tomorrow because he can't function and was vomiting. I understand that I may need to leave the marriage in the future. He has addiction problems among other things but first I want to help him get disability or something. What can we do. Bash if u must.