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Recreating my sexual abuse in the bedroom

Anonymous
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Well, not exactly, but I was sexually abused by several men as a child, and now the only way I can enjoy sex with men is if they physically hurt me. I an all for not judging peoples' kinks, but in my case do you think there might be a connection? I'm just a couple weeks into therapy, and I'm wondering if it's worth mentioning.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:25 PM
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s.osborne
by Gold Member on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:27 PM
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I don't even understand what this post says. Were you having a stroke while typing it?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:27 PM
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You're in therapy for it and you aren't talking about it? 

You NEED to talk to them about it. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:27 PM

what?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:28 PM

yes, i am the same way i was raped and molested as a child and now in order to feel it i have to have it rough

mattiehatter
by Mary on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:28 PM

It isn't uncommon for a person who has suffered  through sexual abuse and rape to fall into these sexual practices. I would definitely bring it up in your sessions.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:28 PM
Yeah. I believe so.
Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:28 PM
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Very common coping method. They get to re-live it under THEIR terms.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:28 PM
Sorry, my text ended up in the wrong place. I think I fixed it all.


Quoting s.osborne:

I don't even understand what this post says. Were you having a stroke while typing it?

wulfeyes05
by Ruby Member on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:28 PM

I would mention it to your therapist. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:28 PM
You need therapy. Not being mean. Yes its connected
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