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sitting holding dhs love child....

Anonymous
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So background. I have a 14 yo dsd, 4 yo dd, 3 yo ds a preemie, Rhage and now a 10 mo dsd..... my dhs OW called a few days ago. They had broken up within two months of scewing because he knew it would kill me (so he says) the ow is going to jail and she (the baby) needed one of her parents. Now me I found out three days ago, moved in baby girl, Rhage is in our room. Yes the 26 weeker... who was concieved shortly after her birth obviously. I am not talking to dh right now, I love him, don't wanna uproot our kids don't want to lose dsds. I don't know what to do. I'm already falling for her, she's asleep in my lap as we speak, she needed to cuddle so I'm in our rocker waiting for Rhage to wake. Now ow is in jail for escorting and I am tempted to tell dh if he wants us to work he needs to tell her to sign over custody and let me adopt.. or tell dh to fight for adoption/custody. What do you guys think?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:51 PM
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Mrs-Somerhalder
by Blake on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:54 PM
I think that while it may be difficult for you, and while she may not be the best role model, you shouldn't try to get her rights terminated unless its something the mother WANTS to do. I also don't think putting that ultimatum on him is a good idea. That's not really something he can control.

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SweetandSassy12
by on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:54 PM
I think the more suitable home is with.you guys but if this women cleans up her act let her at least see the baby ..things happen for a reason love this little girl to peaces:)
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ilovemykids732
by on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:55 PM
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If she was escorting your dh needs to take a paternity test... And get an std check...
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Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:56 PM
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 It would never be me......

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:57 PM
He will but she looks just like our ds.

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If she was escorting your dh needs to take a paternity test... And get an std check...
MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:57 PM
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 I'm sorry but you lost me at the name Rhage.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:57 PM
Get her a jail bird dont need a dd or ds
DEJavu17
by on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:57 PM
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 I would be more concerned about the STD's he might have...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:58 PM
Troll.
AF2011
by Ruby Member on Apr. 1, 2013 at 8:58 PM
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That's so awesome that you accepted the baby like that. You sound like an amazing person just from that. But make sure to do an DNA test because well she's an escort. Oh yeah and STD test.

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