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My confession: I'm ashamed I have herpes

Anonymous
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I have become close friends to a girl constantly rags on ppl that have herpes and it makes me feel dirty because I have it. Only my husband knows I have it.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:07 AM
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MyLoveAlexander
by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:09 AM
How'd you get it? Wth.


Quoting Anonymous:

I have become close friends to a girl constantly rags on ppl that have herpes and it makes me feel dirty because I have it. Only my husband knows I have it.

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SadiasMomma
by Gold Member on Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:10 AM
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Tell her to fuck off. It's not like you created the disease.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:11 AM

It isn't that difficult to get. 


Quoting MyLoveAlexander:

How'd you get it? Wth.


Quoting Anonymous:

I have become close friends to a girl constantly rags on ppl that have herpes and it makes me feel dirty because I have it. Only my husband knows I have it.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:11 AM
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My husband is also the only one that knows I have it.

Maybe your friend has it too and she makes nervous jokes to make herself feel better or so no one would ever suspect she has it.
JessT5280
by MileHigh Mom on Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:11 AM
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I'm sorry .. people are assholes and assume they know everything. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:12 AM
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I can't imagine how that feels and I am pretty sure I'd feel the same way. Even if it wasn't your fault there has been a stigma put on Herpes so bad, that anyone would be ashamed to have it. Sorry you have it and feel that way.

Lalalie
by Gold Member on Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:13 AM
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Why does she rag on people with herpes?

Seems like something that wouldn't bother her to such an extent, unless she has it too and is just bitter and secretive about it.

KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:13 AM

 I'll admit, I've passed judgements about those with STDs before REALLY thinking about what the situation could be.....

You know your story, and I wouldn't let anyone make you feel less of a person.. If she doesn't know you have it.. She can't know she's hurting you.  If you tell her, and tell her the story.. then maybe rather than being like me, and thinking something NEGATIVE first.. She'll know first hand that it's not always because someone was promiscuous, etc.

                         


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:13 AM


so than how did you get it? 

does your dh have it now?


Quoting Anonymous:

It isn't that difficult to get. 


Quoting MyLoveAlexander:

How'd you get it? Wth.


Quoting Anonymous:

I have become close friends to a girl constantly rags on ppl that have herpes and it makes me feel dirty because I have it. Only my husband knows I have it.





Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Apr. 2, 2013 at 12:14 AM
There are natural remedies for treatment that kill it out of your spine.


Quoting Anonymous:

My husband is also the only one that knows I have it.



Maybe your friend has it too and she makes nervous jokes to make herself feel better or so no one would ever suspect she has it.

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