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I am scared, nervous, and hopr I am all wrong about this.....UPDATE UPDATE CORRECTIONS AS WELL

Posted by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:48 AM
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Backstory A while back I made a post saying "I think my Dh is having a emotional affair ( Text and talking to other woman. Meeting up, seeing them naked, or what they would do together etc.) and  back up to his old habits that I caught him doing before.


Forward: well It only be a month since I found text messages in his phone and conforted him.   About two weeks after thats incident he was starting to acting odd again.  So I track his number (Metro has a dial app) and could see  who he was calling and when. The times were always when I am church or his working when these call were made to center numbers. I know for sure one of the numbers is a female coworker.(She cant even look at me and is all nervous like when Seeing me in the store. THis happen last night as well.)

Well this morning I was looking online and found a site that let me see everything, phone calls, address book and text messages words for words as that are sent and receiving. So when he goes to work if he text someone I will know and can see what is being said.  

If it turns out to be his old shit again. I Leaving Dh once I got the money as well as a place to go. Before anyone said  Try to work it out or go to counseling. It won't help. We try everything and it always his sorry it will NEVER happen again.

 FYI it's been six years and two kids later that I've been dealing with this and doing everything to change it. I want our marriage to work out but it just doesn't seem like that a option anymore. I allowed him to gain my trust back over and over again. I will start to trust again Dh  breaks my heart all over again. I just don't think I can handle this abuse it anymore. At this point I rather have physical abuse then all this emotional and mental abuse. That's a different story.


sorry for errors.

Let me and I will correct them.


UPDATE:Sorry it took so long to get back on. Pretty much he doing Dh is back to his old ways. There were messages he sent To ( we call her E) but she never responded back to him at all. So I thought okay it just me being paranoid. Nope he keeping get on his something ( I wasn't allowed to see Dh would exit real quick if I came near him)  while we were watching tv on his phone and it was driving me crazy. We end up getting in a little fight afterwards he started kiss my butt soon.


Something wasn't sitting well with me so since I am the who get up with the baby during the night. Once I got her back to sleep I looked at his phonee ( Yes I know but I don't want hear how wrong it is blah blah ) there was a app. It kinda like facebook but on the phone. Well anyways he had sent tons of messages to different girls saying things like

Ex: "Your so dam hot, you want watch a movie with me (PoRn), and the one that made me mad was "Your kids are cute; I also have to little girls".

Even through none of the girls responed it the fact of how he was talking to them and his in a relateship no less. I just don't know what to think.

Also I could sleep by him no more afterwards so I moved to the couch. During the time I was asleep and writing this now Dh went on his phone and delete everything again. I am over this shit

by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:48 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:50 AM
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Is English your first language?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:52 AM
So do you know anything? I just want to know if he's having the affair.
lucydiamond
by LD on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:53 AM
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This.

Quoting Anonymous:

Is English your first language?
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PISCIS29
by Gold Member on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:54 AM
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Are you serious???? She's asking for help and you're giving her grief over language/grammar ?????

Hugs mamma. Idk that I could deal with it a first time to begin with but if he's doing it again and your done then send his cheating ass walking bc you sooo deserve better. He isn't worth the aggravation if HE isn't willing to change. Good luck and hugs!


Quoting Anonymous:

Is English your first language?
Posted on the NEW CafeMom Mobile
she_walk_softly
by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:54 AM

I hope it turns out to be nothing.

ERMAGERRD
by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:55 AM

Oh man :( Im sorry hun

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:56 AM
I can barely get through the post.
bugismyworld
by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:58 AM

One second I will try and fixed it. I had it type right with Paragraph but my computer messed up and turn off. I just got back on . 

Quoting lucydiamond:

This.

Quoting Anonymous:

Is English your first language?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 2, 2013 at 11:00 AM
What's the website? I hope your feelings are wrong and nothing is going on. Good luck!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 2, 2013 at 11:03 AM
Agreed. Too much head translation.

Editing before posting can help us help you!


Quoting Anonymous:

I can barely get through the post.

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