BM needs to stop trying to control things in SM's house!!!
***POSTED A PIC OF 14 YEAR OLD STEPSON RIDING 2 YEAR OLD SON AROUND YARD ON A 4 WHEELER MODIFIED TO GO NO FASTER THAN A LAWNMOWER. AND THEY WERE NOT MOVING IN THE PICTURE.
BM NEVER HAS ANYTHING NICE TO SAY WHEN IT COMES TO DAD OR I. WOULDN'T NORMALLY CARE EXCEPT BM CONSTANTLY LOOKS FOR NEGATIVE THINGS TO SAY TO 14SS ABOUT DAD AND I AND THE FACT THAT WE ARE NOT THE STRICTEST TIGHT ASSES IN THE WORLD LIKE SHE IS. AND BEFORE YOU ASK NO BM IS NOT MY FRIEND ON FB. SHE SAW PIC I TAGGED 14SS IN BECAUSE SHE IS HIS FRIEND ON FB AND WHEN I TAGGED HIM IT PUT THE PIC ON HIS WALL.***
BM always has some passive aggressive implication to post under 14SS pics on his FB, ex: when 14SS posted a pic and said that he loved the Christmas gift I got him and that it was the best one he got this Christmas BM then had to post and ask him why he thought it was better than what she got him or better than what his father got him....that kind of thing. I usually laugh and ignore but this time I sarcastically commented back that his helmet was not in the picture because I didn't want his face covered for the pic, once the picture was taken he went over to grab his helmet (which I said was sitting right next to his beer) then I wrote JUST KIDDING in giant letters.
BM and DH have told me a couple of times on different occasions that I am NOT the mother of 14SS so I decided to disengage from being a stepmother and start being "the fun aunt" type. 14SS already has one mother he doesn't need another one. I am NOT going to be stepparent just when BM thinks it's appropriate.
SHE TEXTED DH WITH THIS: Seriously? All over asking where his helmet was? Being his "friend" is inappropriate. She's not a teen she is a STEP parent which means she supports you, not talks to me or starts shit. I don't want to hear from her about anything. I can ask whatever questions i want about my son and about what he's doing whenever i want. Maybe you should have asked more questions over the years and been more concerned about what's going on with him. If you or her took me asking where his helmet was as a judgment then maybe you have a guilty conscience. Now, i can't remove the posts, i tried. You have to do it from your end. I won't answer you, so don't bother responding. And i sure therapy sessions will prove to be very interesting.
Honestly? You BMs wonder why us SM's get pissy sometimes??