DH is in the AF stationed in Germany. I was there visiting for three months while we tried to get Command Sponsorship so I could live there. It was denyed and we were trying to figure out what to do when everything went to hell.
He was on Facebook talking to someone when I came over to hug him. He FREAKED out and closed the window. I was really surprised since he'd never cared about me looking at his facebook before. I ignored it and went back to my side of the room (he lives in a dorm). A little while later I snuck over to see what he was saying that I wasn't allowed to see. Turns out, he was planning on hooking up with her the next day during lunch...
I was PISSED. He told me he had to work through lunch. He'd told me that a few times and I asked him how many of those times he'd actually hooked up with a girl. He said he hadn't yet because it hadn't worked out, but it wasn't my buisness that he could do whatever he wanted. I was soo shocked. I told him he could NOT do whatever he wanted since he was MARRIED! HE pushed for use to get married... he pushed for it for 1&1/2 years before I married him in a court room after his dad died. (4months before all this happened).
He told me if I wanted to be like that I could leave. He's the man he can do whatever blah blah. I had no where to go. He told me he didn't care, I could either apologize and shut my mouth or leave. I told him I wasn't doing either. He put my suitcase out of his room and picked me up and put me out of his room and shut the door, busting my lip in the process.
I went down to our friend's room. I'd be staying with him during the day while DH was at work since I couldn't stay in DH's room. I would just sit on the lazy-boy and play on my computer while our friend slept or got ready for work. DH was the one that sent me down there.
That night since I was angry, I slept with our friend. It was stupid and I never told DH. We made up and have seemed fine though I'm sure he's still cheating on me. He is also about to get kicked out of the AF.
Well, that was 7 weeks ago... I came home shortly after and just found out I am pregnant. I told DH and he said "It's not mine" and told me I was a whore and he knew I'd been putting out to the whole dorm.
I did NOT slept with the whole dorm. I have NO idea where he got that idea since I never left the room without him unless I was in our friend's room.
I am so beyond angry. I called a lawyer but he said I can't get a divorce until AFTER the baby is born because no Judge will sign a divorce order while the wife is pregnant to protect the rights of the father. UGH.