You're at your friends house waiting for someone to show up who owes you money. I call you and ask how long you'll be because I have a meeting. You get pissed off and call me dumb, stupid, immature, etc. I say I won't be with you if you call me names.
You show up at home a few minutes later screaming and slamming doors because you didn't get your money and its my fault for giving you a hard time. You don't know I was on the phone with your sister when you were having your tantrum.