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Pregnancy is a mistake?

Anonymous
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Have you ever viewed a pregnancy, or a child, as a mistake?


Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:29 PM
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jojo_star
by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:30 PM
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Yup, my pregnancy at 16 was a horrible mistake, and rather than make it worse, I had an abortion. 

tifbrown
by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:32 PM
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Nope. Unexpected blessings.
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MysticIceWater
by Saphyres mommy on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:33 PM
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Yup both my kids were mistakes sorta speak. Failed birth control was the mistake, my babies not the mistake :) they are my blessings.
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Kitschy
by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:33 PM

Yes. Once. 

Kat31
by AlwaysWatching on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:33 PM
Maybe I would call it a surprise.
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Trixi.VonLace
by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:34 PM
Nope
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:34 PM
But your pregnancy at 12 wasnt a mistake? Not bashing just honestly curious


Quoting jojo_star:

Yup, my pregnancy at 16 was a horrible mistake, and rather than make it worse, I had an abortion. 


tarakay0417
by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:35 PM
Nope. One was bad timing but not a mistake. I have had 3 pregnancies thay resulted in two beautiful babies. I love my kids, even the one I lost.
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jojo_star
by on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:36 PM

No, it wasn't. At least, not the same way. It was a very different, very complicated situation then. I've never considered that a mistake, because my son was my reason for surviving and getting past it. I don't think I'd be here today, or at least nowhere near as successful and happy as I am, had I not had him. He forced me to get help and keep on going. 

Quoting Anonymous:

But your pregnancy at 12 wasnt a mistake? Not bashing just honestly curious


Quoting jojo_star:

Yup, my pregnancy at 16 was a horrible mistake, and rather than make it worse, I had an abortion. 



hip2it
by Silver Member on Apr. 2, 2013 at 10:36 PM
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I don't think any baby is a mistake but I think timing can certainly be horrible.
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