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I dislike my friends kids.... simple as that.

Anonymous
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Okay .. let me say this first .. I am not a troll. This is NOT a troll post.

I'm changing the names because my friend does cafemom (not a part of this group, but she IS a member)

I have a friend named Michelle .. She has 3 kids. Dick (6 yo boy), Jane (4 yo girl) and Sue (1 yo girl). I have 3 kids .. Christian (9 yo boy), Patrick (6 yo boy) and Mary (4 yo girl). Okay so heres the problem.

I love Michelle, we have been best friends for a LONG time (High school days). We have been there for eachother through thick and thin. She comforted me when my nephew died, and I was the first one by her side to help her clean her house when DFACS took her kids away. (I know that sounds bad and white trash, but it happened .. I helped her and told her that she couldnt blame anyone but herself and they had every reason to take them - she just couldnt let it happen again). We have kids that are best friends. Dick and Patrick are the same age and have been best friends since they could walk, Mary and Jane are the same way.

My kids arnt perfect. Christian has ADHD and Patrick is a smart ass (just being honest), and Mary just gets into everything, best bet if there is hand soap in the bathroom, she is going to make the bathtub a slip-n-slide lol. They are all loving kids. They are all happy and healthy.

I cant stand for Michelle to come over. I actually want to hide when she randomly drives up because her kids are too much for me. I cant handle them. Dick is violent .. Ex: We got my boys an xbox kinect for their birthday. It came with Disneyland Adventures. The boys went to my moms for the night and Mary stayed home. Michelle and the brats came over and Mary wanted to show Jane the game (you dance with disney princesses). Well of course Dick wanted a turn, and she gave him one .. (my kids share) well he didnt want to give her a turn so he elbowed her in the chest .. HARD, knocked the breath out of her. I seriously was at loss for words. I looked at Michelle and shook my head .. she said "Now Dick ... Tell Mary your sorry". That was it. Not a swat on the ass, or the corner .. im sorry .. but if MY son did that to a little girl then his ass would be in some serious trouble. Alls i could say was, "Its okay Mary, they are about to GO HOME".

Another time on Dicks birthday, he got upset because i told him to watch his mouth and he spit on me. His mother did nothing. She said .. Well, i dont want to get him in trouble on his birthday.

This boy is a nightmare.

Jane constantly cries. If she doesnt get her way she can be just as much of a monster as he is. I cant take these kids. They break my shit on purpose. I really just want to choke them EVERY time they come over, and it wouldnt be such an issue if Michelle would do something about it.

Christian was doing his homework one day and Dick just came up to him and kicked him in the back. Patrick is his friend, but now he is making up stories on Patrick just to get him in trouble. WTF?? I know half you are going to think this is wrong but i have given my kids the option to defend themselves. Maybe that will open hey eyes to the problem .. what would you do?

Before yall say .. Just stay away from them. Id just like to point out that thats not an option. The kids go to the same school, are on the same t-ball team (Partick, Mary, Jane, and Dick), and our husbands work at the same place so we really rely on eachother to watch eachothers kids when the husbands take turns being on call, if we need to do something. And i have also tried talking to her about it .. it never does any good.

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Xanbuttsmom
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:08 AM
I know how you feel. Pretty much all my friends kids get on my nerves. One is a bully. The other always snatches toys from my sin as he brings them out. The others daughter always says she's hungry when she comes over. Its so annoying. She doesn't listen and just sits here and gives ber mom attitude. I feel bad because I don't want my bffs son around mine because im afraid he is seriously going to hurt him. Or even kill him. Ds is two and her son is 6 he is so rough with my baby I want to punch him in his face. But he is six so I just make him stand in the corner
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by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:10 AM

If they are at your house, it's your discipline rules, especially if they are hurting your kids. Put him in the corner, make him sit out, hell lock him in a room (with non breakable things... ) if need be. Tell your friend that your kids are not punching bags for Dick and he will be disciplined appropriately (nothing hands on tho) if he continues to behave this way in YOUR home. Those kids need to learn some respect. Also maybe see if your DH can talk to her DH about it? Maybe he can get her to see that the kids are running roughshod over her and DH needs to start disciplining more at home? She's obviously doing sweet fuck all to help the situation. Sorry you have to deal with this crap.  It could even be that Dick has some mental health issues he needs to be dealing with - he sounds like the biggest troublemaker. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:11 AM

 Yeah he like really pisses me off. I dont usually call kids names but this kid is a basterd.

Quoting Xanbuttsmom:

I know how you feel. Pretty much all my friends kids get on my nerves. One is a bully. The other always snatches toys from my sin as he brings them out. The others daughter always says she's hungry when she comes over. Its so annoying. She doesn't listen and just sits here and gives ber mom attitude. I feel bad because I don't want my bffs son around mine because im afraid he is seriously going to hurt him. Or even kill him. Ds is two and her son is 6 he is so rough with my baby I want to punch him in his face. But he is six so I just make him stand in the corner

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:13 AM

My DH has tried but her DH doesnt want to cross his wife. Now If her DH is around then HE DOES punish, but he never is so ...

Quoting Anonymous:

If they are at your house, it's your discipline rules, especially if they are hurting your kids. Put him in the corner, make him sit out, hell lock him in a room (with non breakable things... ) if need be. Tell your friend that your kids are not punching bags for Dick and he will be disciplined appropriately (nothing hands on tho) if he continues to behave this way in YOUR home. Those kids need to learn some respect. Also maybe see if your DH can talk to her DH about it? Maybe he can get her to see that the kids are running roughshod over her and DH needs to start disciplining more at home? She's obviously doing sweet fuck all to help the situation. Sorry you have to deal with this crap.  It could even be that Dick has some mental health issues he needs to be dealing with - he sounds like the biggest troublemaker. 

 

Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:16 AM
I love the alias you gave the boy!

You have to stick up for your kids. Next time Dick does something like that, tell him he has to leave. His mom will hear it and hopefully leave and get the idea.
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:18 AM

 Yeah, I did that on purpose, lmao. Thought it fit!

Quoting Nicoleb9:

I love the alias you gave the boy!

You have to stick up for your kids. Next time Dick does something like that, tell him he has to leave. His mom will hear it and hopefully leave and get the idea.

 

Xanbuttsmom
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:19 AM
ya man kids are assholes and their parents don't do anything about it except make excuses. "she used to not act like this but lately, bullshit, bullshit, bullshit"..... "He has been having a rough time with bullshit, bullshit, bullshit."..... I can't stand being around disrepectful little brats right now and being 30 weeks pregnant doesn't help.

Quoting Anonymous:

 Yeah he like really pisses me off. I dont usually call kids names but this kid is a basterd.


Quoting Xanbuttsmom:

I know how you feel. Pretty much all my friends kids get on my nerves. One is a bully. The other always snatches toys from my sin as he brings them out. The others daughter always says she's hungry when she comes over. Its so annoying. She doesn't listen and just sits here and gives ber mom attitude. I feel bad because I don't want my bffs son around mine because im afraid he is seriously going to hurt him. Or even kill him. Ds is two and her son is 6 he is so rough with my baby I want to punch him in his face. But he is six so I just make him stand in the corner

 

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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:23 AM

 I know how you feel. After you have 3 kids of your own, you no longer have the mentality to deal with another kids assholeness. I should have told Mary to deck him right in the eye. My kids WILL start taking up for themselves more. Im not dealing with this shit. Sorry but you reap what you sew.

Quoting Xanbuttsmom:

ya man kids are assholes and their parents don't do anything about it except make excuses. "she used to not act like this but lately, bullshit, bullshit, bullshit"..... "He has been having a rough time with bullshit, bullshit, bullshit."..... I can't stand being around disrepectful little brats right now and being 30 weeks pregnant doesn't help.

Quoting Anonymous:

 Yeah he like really pisses me off. I dont usually call kids names but this kid is a basterd.


Quoting Xanbuttsmom:

I know how you feel. Pretty much all my friends kids get on my nerves. One is a bully. The other always snatches toys from my sin as he brings them out. The others daughter always says she's hungry when she comes over. Its so annoying. She doesn't listen and just sits here and gives ber mom attitude. I feel bad because I don't want my bffs son around mine because im afraid he is seriously going to hurt him. Or even kill him. Ds is two and her son is 6 he is so rough with my baby I want to punch him in his face. But he is six so I just make him stand in the corner

 

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:23 AM

Why is she so reluctant to discipline? Maybe tell her (or have DH tell the other DH) you are **really** worried her kids might hurt your kids and you would very much appreciate her stepping in when say, I don't know, one of her kids KICKS one of your kids? Justice must be swift and absolute... lol the wrath of MOM should be something every kid is scared to bring on!!! 

Quoting Anonymous:

My DH has tried but her DH doesnt want to cross his wife. Now If her DH is around then HE DOES punish, but he never is so ...

Quoting Anonymous:

If they are at your house, it's your discipline rules, especially if they are hurting your kids. Put him in the corner, make him sit out, hell lock him in a room (with non breakable things... ) if need be. Tell your friend that your kids are not punching bags for Dick and he will be disciplined appropriately (nothing hands on tho) if he continues to behave this way in YOUR home. Those kids need to learn some respect. Also maybe see if your DH can talk to her DH about it? Maybe he can get her to see that the kids are running roughshod over her and DH needs to start disciplining more at home? She's obviously doing sweet fuck all to help the situation. Sorry you have to deal with this crap.  It could even be that Dick has some mental health issues he needs to be dealing with - he sounds like the biggest troublemaker. 




Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2013 at 2:26 AM

 I dont know why. I get on my kids butts if they hurt another kid. Im not raising little bullys. And they know, we have tried to talk to them about it, doesnt do any good.

Quoting Anonymous:

Why is she so reluctant to discipline? Maybe tell her (or have DH tell the other DH) you are **really** worried her kids might hurt your kids and you would very much appreciate her stepping in when say, I don't know, one of her kids KICKS one of your kids? Justice must be swift and absolute... lol the wrath of MOM should be something every kid is scared to bring on!!! 

Quoting Anonymous:

My DH has tried but her DH doesnt want to cross his wife. Now If her DH is around then HE DOES punish, but he never is so ...

Quoting Anonymous:

If they are at your house, it's your discipline rules, especially if they are hurting your kids. Put him in the corner, make him sit out, hell lock him in a room (with non breakable things... ) if need be. Tell your friend that your kids are not punching bags for Dick and he will be disciplined appropriately (nothing hands on tho) if he continues to behave this way in YOUR home. Those kids need to learn some respect. Also maybe see if your DH can talk to her DH about it? Maybe he can get her to see that the kids are running roughshod over her and DH needs to start disciplining more at home? She's obviously doing sweet fuck all to help the situation. Sorry you have to deal with this crap.  It could even be that Dick has some mental health issues he needs to be dealing with - he sounds like the biggest troublemaker. 

 

 

 

 

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