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I am tired of people calling me dumb

Anonymous
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I am so sick of the looks and the "how are you going to afford it" "babies cost money" "Wait your inspection is 3 months past due, you can't afford it and you want a baby".

Yes my boyfriend and I are trying to have a baby. 

No my BF does not work.

Yes my car inspection is late. Its going to take a lot to pass so I am holding off. 

I am 23 and have yet to have a baby. We want one so bad.


Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 3, 2013 at 9:11 AM
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Crymsm
by Platinum Member on Apr. 3, 2013 at 9:13 AM
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Soooo...financially can you afford one?
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brandydesiree
by Platinum Member on Apr. 3, 2013 at 9:13 AM
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If you can't support that baby on your own, yet you're trying to conceive anyway... EVERYBODY is RIGHT... You're being ignorant.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 3, 2013 at 9:13 AM
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Then don't make dumb choices?? How will you afford a kid? You can't drive your car .....
Kerannmer
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 9:14 AM
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Sorry, DUMB. Just because you want a baby doesn't mean you should have one. You and your boyfriend don't sound too responsible...no employment, can't afford a simple car inspection? Yet you want to add a HUMAN LIFE to whatever it is you have? DUMB, DUMB, DUMB. I agree with whomever is calling you this.

finnbar
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 9:14 AM
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Babies are not a possession, a designer trinket everybody "deserves"
23 is not that old.
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EvaTheDiva29
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 9:14 AM

well...........................

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 3, 2013 at 9:15 AM

then stop acting dumb

LaughingTattoo
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 9:15 AM
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Welll..........read that back to yourself out loud

EAzizM
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 9:16 AM
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Wanting a baby and being able to provide for one are two totally different things. Tell your boyfriend to get a job atleast THEN decide on something. It is pretty dumb.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 3, 2013 at 9:16 AM
Hmmmm... In this case I'll say not responsible enough to have a baby. But you're just giving me snippets and not good ones.
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