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When will it stop feeling like I'm cheating?

Posted by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 12:37 PM
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Sooo....back in Feb. I made an annoymous post (I was embarassed LOL) about my being asked on a date by a wonderful, sweet, hotter than hell co-worker. I thought he was joking...he wasn't.

Its been almost 2 months now and we have been seeing each other quite a bit and forming a really nice relationship. He was pretty much my best friend before, and now its different but really nice. But, every time we are alone acting more like a romantic couple I start to feel awkward, like I'm doing something wrong. Anyone have any insight here on how long this usually lasts?

 

Sorry for the confusion. I was married and had a wonderful relationship. My husband died Dec. 2011.

by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 12:37 PM
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Bella_x3
by Silver Member on Apr. 3, 2013 at 12:57 PM

Damnit...no one has experience with anything like this? Or anything else to say for that matter? My annon post got responses...

mommy_me
by Emerald Member on Apr. 3, 2013 at 12:59 PM
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Im not sure why you feel like you are cheating.
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cmabbott
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:00 PM

Are you married?  Recently divorced?  Single?

If you're married, then it would probably be wise to let your co-worker know that you are not looking for more than anything besides a friendship.

Divorced/Single- Go with the flow and see how things end up.

ShortCakeScrap
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:01 PM

I'm not sure why you would feel that way.  Were you recently in a relationship? 

rosie211
by I'm a nice one on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:03 PM

If you are single, have fun with this new relationship.

If you are married, you are feeling guilty for a reason. If you gut says it shouldn't be happening, it probably shouldn't.

.betty.white.
by Ruby Member on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:05 PM
My guess is you're recently single. Just go with it
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:05 PM
That's a little confusing
LizzieAnnesMom
by ☆Mrs.Winchester☆ on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:18 PM
Are you dating or married to someone else? Then you are NOT cheating! Have fun and enjoy yourself!
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ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:19 PM

Why does it feel like cheating? is either of you married or just out of a relationship?

Bella_x3
by Silver Member on Apr. 3, 2013 at 1:48 PM

Sorry for the confusion and not being clear...my husband passed away in Dec. 2011. I think because that was a good relationship, not one I ended, it feels off for me to be with someone else.

Quoting cmabbott:

Are you married?  Recently divorced?  Single?

If you're married, then it would probably be wise to let your co-worker know that you are not looking for more than anything besides a friendship.

Divorced/Single- Go with the flow and see how things end up.

 

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