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I don't care if BM lost her job, she will get no more money from us

Anonymous
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DH has 2 kids with his ex wife. When child support was set, she was not working so it is based on her not making anything. She started working but DH never took her back to have child support reduced. Well now she has lost her job and wants more money from DH. She has spoken with an attorney who told her that because child support is not based on her income, she will not get an increase because she lost her job. So now she is just trying to get DH to agree to giving her money. We talked about it and I said hell no, she already gets the fair amount, in fact, while she was working, she got more then the fair amount.

She wants us to basically pay her bills while she goes back to school and is a SAHM. DH doesn't want to do it but he doesn't want his kids to go without. We could afford to do it but we shouldn't have to

We have bedrooms for the kids at our house for when they visit so, if she can't afford to provide for them, they are welcome to move in but as for giving her more money, that is a big hell no.

She has a lot of lady balls to expect her ex  and his wife to pay her bills just because she knows we could.

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 3, 2013 at 4:15 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2013 at 4:19 PM

BUMP!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2013 at 4:19 PM

BUMP!

kjfamily
by Gold Member on Apr. 3, 2013 at 4:20 PM
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Yeah fuck her. She needs to find her own man to pay her bills.
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JNLmomme09
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 4:21 PM

Im confused

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 3, 2013 at 4:22 PM
Go to court and let them decide
JNLmomme09
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 4:22 PM

Why would her income matter at all? Doesnt your state just take a percentage of your dh salary/wadges

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 3, 2013 at 4:24 PM
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I'm conused that your confused? Wy shouls they have to pay her more cs it's not their fault she lost her job...she should go on unemployment...

Quoting JNLmomme09:

Im confused


 

jbirdsladie27
by on Apr. 3, 2013 at 4:24 PM
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So glad I never have to deal with this shit!
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Tal0n
by Platinum Member on Apr. 3, 2013 at 4:25 PM

I agree.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 3, 2013 at 4:26 PM
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If she wants to take him to court, she can but the judge can't give her anymore and she will have to pay the filing fees



Quoting Anonymous:

Go to court and let them decide



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