So, I keep my 4 year old niece while my brother and SIL work. I usually have her Mon-Thurs.....but SIL was sick Mon and Tues so I've not had her in almost a week.
We were out and about today and she went to the restroom at 9:30am. The door to the restroom is so heavy, I can barely open it so I let her in and out. I asked her if she flushed and she said no and almost went back to do it herself, but I told her that I'd get it, I needed to pee too. And sent her with DH. I looked into the toilet and the water was almost a rust color. I asked the manager of the place if the toilet had anything like a cleaner or whatever in and he said "No, but it's normal for our water to be rust color because of the pipes." I shrugged it off.
We got home at 4, and I realized she hadn't been to pee since 9:30, so I made her go to the bathroom. I asked her not to flush to let me see, but she flushed anyway. I went in after her and see this on the toilet seat:
So I asked her if it hurts her to pee and she said it does. :( I've been making her drink water since then....but does this look like just dehydration or bladder infection?
*UPDATE* I just got off the phone with her mom. Said she had her pee at home and it was clear/yellow, but there were dark stains in front and back of underwear. We're guessing she was having diarrheal and for some reason didn't ask me for help like normal. She's going to wake her up a few times through the night to make her pee and is pushing water in case, and I'll do the same tomorrow.