We have court on Monday, so I know in reality it is all up to the judge, but I'm sure he is going to ask each of our opinions on what we think is fair regaurding custody.
My ex has had his fair share of screw ups with his own life. Although some of his actions COULD hurt my son (emotionally) he has never done anything to our son. He's always been good when he is around him. We've raised him together for 1.5 years and after our split up he moved a few hours away.
My ex and I barely talk. When we do, we fight. Everyone keeps telling me I need to just forget he exists, but how? He's the father of my child. I want to find the good in him. I know I can't change him, but I want to get along. Its just so hard because he lies or says things to piss me off on purpose.
I don't know anymore, guys. I'm at my wits end. I'm sure this makes no sense, but whatever.